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The Elusive Treasure of Pleasure...
This does exist. And in over half of the women out there, it works
better than anything else you can do to cause a strong, prolonged
orgasm. The original name is the Grafenberg spot, after a doctor,
Earnest Grafenberg, who documented the area (which may have been
known by people here and there throughout history) in the fifties.
This "spot" is a small "mound" of tissue inside the vagina, between
a penny and quarter in size, which responds to being pressed upon.
It's almost certainly not the skenes glands, (which are located
around the urethra, which is behind the G-spot area), as has been
suggested by a few people. In fact, the G-Spot is the tissue in
that raised area of the vagina, which has a higher concentration
of sexual nerves, and produces hormones similar to those made by
the male's prostate gland.
A sort of map to the area -- Imagine your lover lying on her back,
legs spread. Your position is between her legs. You would slide
a finger inside her vagina, palm up. With your finger straight back,
middle finger is best, you would curve it toward yourself, gently,
as if you were gesturing to someone to "come here". In doing so,
the area you press on should be pretty near her "G-Spot" area. If
you know enough to follow the urethra (the tube that leads from
the bladder to where the pee comes out), along the inside of her
vagina, you may feel a slight swelling (if she's excited) at the
point where the g-spot is.
She must be excited, especially if either you or she is new to the
g-spot, for the g-spot to have any real effect at all. It's not
the ideal area for getting your lover aroused. But when she is excited,
this area (more often than not) is the best way to bring her to
orgasm. You work your way back to it gradually, teasing her (typically,
this works best) with your fingers, slowly and gently. It's easier
to hit the right area with two fingers, but this may not be comfortable
for her, depending on how "tight" she is at that moment.
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