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When you have your fingers around the right area, try gently pressing,
not too quickly. The movement should be fairly rhythmic. It's typically
best if you're licking her clitoris (or near it, depending on the
woman) at the same time...don't make a big deal out of the "quest",
this will often make her feel self-conscious, or distracted. The
licking should seem to be the primary activity. When you find the
right area, she should respond by getting more excited.
Most of the vagina's inside surface isn't really that sexually sensitive,
believe it or not...most of the excitement of randomly inserting
fingers is more psychological than from the actual stimulation.
While more complicated techniques work with some women, some of
the time, the best basic technique, upon finding the g-spot, is
to continue to slowly, rhythmically press on it, while licking her
clitoris (for a few women, the labia (lips) are sensitive to licking,
too). This should cause her to build up to an orgasm.
A G-Spot orgasm is different (always, when it works at all) than
any other kind women have. It is possible, with some women, to have
different qualities and kinds of orgasms from vaginal, clitoral,
anal, and even breast stimulation...but with other women, those
kinds of orgasms are all pretty much the same. But the G-Spot orgasm
not only feels different; it also causes her body to react in a
different way.
First, it often causes a "push out" orgasm. The area around, or
"above" (farther inside, that is) your fingers seems to swell up
or to contract toward the opening of her vagina. If you find the
right combination of pushing back when this happens, and slacking
off to let it push out, you can cause (in perhaps half of the women)
her orgasm to continue happening, long after normal ones would have
subsided. In some women you can even keep her at a "plateau" (raised
level) of sexual excitement, like a prolonged orgasm (or a little
less than one) afterward, building up to an even bigger climax.
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